Breaking Up: the DOs and DON’Ts


“We belong to nobody, and nobody belongs to us.”

– Audrey Hepburn, Breakfast at Tiffany’s


Love is the sweetest thing in the whole world that could ever happen to you. It takes you to a dreamland. Everything becomes so wonderful. But sometimes love is not so great, especially when you are breaking up with your special one. People seem hopeless after a breakup, but if you look into their eyes, then you will see there is nothing but pain, the pain of a broken heart. After a break up, the common things are: crying, spending a lot of time with friends, talking about the ex, drinking, some weird texts or phone calls to your ex and then…totally lost.

Don’t Stop Anyone Who Wants To Leave You.

Okay, you may have to leave the one whom you loved once. Time to say the last words. So say Goodbye with a smile, not with eyes full of tears! Let it go away from you. God made a special one for you who is somewhere else in this world, eagerly waiting for you. Don’t be frustrated. Eat your favorite foods! Try some sweets, or some spicy dishes – or whatever you wish. Yummy!

Close your eyes and think deeply. What happened to you? What is left there for you? There is always something left for you.

“Happiness depends upon ourselves.” – Aristotle


If your ex did not have any trouble breaking up, why would feel bad? Kick that person out of your life. Ignore those people saying it was your fault. Delete the memories from your mind and your life – Delete the texts, the cell number, emails & photos.

Things You Should Not Do:

– Drugs. It will never help you, it will just bring some new troubles in your life. You’ve got only one life, why destroy it? If you really want to try drugs, then visit a psychiatrist and he will prescribe you some if needed. Some say prescription drugs are even funnier!

– Revenge. Sometimes, forgiving someone is better than taking revenge. In this case, you will still lose if you succeed to take revenge. You can’t forget until you forgive. And you will not be able to get back to the normal life until your forget.

– Love Games. Just because you were not successful this time, don’t lose faith in love and start playing “love games”. It is better to be alone than being with the wrong person.

Things You Should Do:


For Now: Enjoy your life!

For Future: Enjoy your life!

And Next Time You Fall In Love: Think deeply, is this the right person for me?

Life is beautiful and stranger than fiction!

About Dia

Hello, readers. This is Dia! :) Most of the writings on this site are written by her. She writes on various subjects, however, she trusts her creator and never writes anything against any religion. She likes reading books. She also fancies rain, rainbows, flowers, forests and full moon. She dislikes narcissism, bad gossiping one's opinion on her. Education Qualifications: BBA, MBA.

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